Papermaking and Silk Weaving


April 28
Today we wake up and plan to set our agenda on how Hudson is feeling.  Turns out he needs another day of rest, so we opt to do a close to home option of going to a nearby artisan village to see their handicrafts.  We get Hudson nicely snuggled into a big bed with plenty of food and drink and we arrange the trip with our taxi driver, who waits patiently each day outside our guesthouse to see if we want to hire him for the day.  The village is only a short drive away and we have debated whether to go on foot or by bicycles, but we are assured that it is much too far for that, so we pile into the back of his open air taxi and we are off.  It turns out that they were correct, we never would have found this on our own.  One of the difficulties of traveling is knowing when to trust people who have something to gain from you and when to maintain your position.  Each of the cultures we have visited approach tourism so differently and have a very personal agenda sometimes for giving you the information they offer.  It is very difficult to know when you are being taken…..you just have to try to find the nuance between the lines.  We arrive at the village on the outskirts of town and are immediately drawn into the working studio of a paper maker.  We see her wares displayed around the entrance to her home/studio and when she emerges to assist us, she gives us a lesson in papermaking.  First, she pulls out a handful of wet cotton fibers that are soaking in a bucket and places them into a rectangular wooden form that is floating in about 4 inches of water.  The wooden form is closed on the bottom side with a netting material.  She spreads the fibers around so they are evenly covering the entire area of the rectangle.  Then, she pulls off petals from some marigold flowers and sprinkles them around.  Finally, she spreads bamboo leaves and arranges them within the form.  She then lifts the tray out of the water and all of the cotton, flowers and leaves remain inside the tray mashed up against the netting.  She then places the form in the sun to dry for 24 hours before making the lanterns, books, cards and other handicrafts.  We purchase some lanterns from her and she places them all into a perfectly beautiful hand-made paper bag.  What a treat.  She then shows us how her mother spins the cotton that they grow in their yard.  She demonstrates how the cotton is combed and then rolled into a long tube which is then put to the spinning wheel and wound onto a spool.  This woman makes around two spools of cotton thread each day and sells then for 10,000 kip ($1.25) each.  They also make the cotton into candle wicks and dip the candles by hand. And, they weave the cotton into cloth on the large loom in the corner of the studio (the loom doubles as a perch for the resident rooster while not in use).  This is fascinating for the kids to see and very humbling to realize how much work goes into making so little money.  After we say our goodbyes, we visit one more paper maker/silk weaving shop and make a couple of purchases there too.  The next stop is a silk weaving operation which has the majority of its looms in a covered porch area in the front of the shop.  We see the cages for the silk worms which house the cocoons.  They dying area is next to it with its huge vats of natural dyes for the thread.  A tour of the looms shows some of the most intricate weaving I have ever seen…..amazingly patterned cloth is being produced by hand with the most gorgeous natural colors.  These are not available at giveaway prices either.  While they are a little out of reach for our budget, they are by no means expensive by western standards, especially given the amount of work and detail that goes into producing each of these cloths.  We visit the sales area and are in awe of the incredible array of scarves, floor cloths, bed spreads, table cloths.  The mother of the sales person is a master weaver and has learned her craft from her parents. The son explains to us the cycle of butterfly to larvae to worm to egg….they keep the whole process in house.  Occasionally when there are too many cocoons to utilize right away, they will put the unopened ones in a cool place so they will remain dormant and only hatch when they want. Fascinating!  In Laos, the textile industry is imbued with significance.  The meaning in the patterns is very important in terms of the culture and their religion.  I do not pretend to understand it all as this is an animist belief system – one where everything in nature in steeped in meaning to help maintain the balance of good and bad; animals, trees, rocks….all have a place in fragile balance of life forces – at least that is my limited understanding.  The people here are very genuine and offer a smile to all.  One of our guide books suggested that we always smile, even if we are feeling angry……it is amazing at how it can change the way you feel by just SMILING. Although,  I don’t perceive the same peacefulness  in them that I feel in Thai people, perhaps because they seem to wear their poverty like a badge.  You become keenly aware when dealing with the Laotian people that they are extremely needy…..they even tell you when you are bargaining that they are so poor….it makes you feel uncomfortable.  At times, I have paid them for something only to have them produce a huge wad of bills in order to make change.  It gives one a slightly awkward feeling and gets you back to that balance between trusting your inner judgement about people and ceding over control.  I continue to strive to be what I term as “fair” – to them and to myself.  Anyhoo….I digress.  We continue on our path along the street popping in and out of shops and making some purchases before returning to our taxi driver for the return trip home. We have developed a big appetite and return to a nearby restaurant for a delicious lunch accompanied by refreshing lemon & mint shake.  Once back in our little nest,  we shower and rest for a while and catch up on the blog, reading, journaling, etc.  Then, we head off to see the local wat – one of the most famous ones in Laos.  We amble down by the riverside and arrive at the wat only to discover it is now closed for the day.  We are able to walk around the grounds though and see the outside of the mosaic clad buildings before exiting out the back door and walking through a neighborhood back to the main street.  We return to the hotel to gather up our crew and to head out to dinner and end up returning to our lunch spot.   Dinner is great and we are all happy to head home, full, tired and ready for a new adventure tomorrow.

A Day of Rest & Relaxation


April 27
The electricity has gone off (again) around 5:00am and we awaken to a very hot and dark room.  We come out and sit on the patio while we wake up a bit and try to decide what to do today.  Hudson is not feeling well at all and has a slight fever, so our plans to visit the nearby Pak Ou caves may be put on hold.  We nurse Hudson for a while and get him settled under the covers in our bed with books, computers, ipods and a good movie on TV for him to spend his day lounging.  Our taxi driver from the day before is waiting patiently outside our guesthouse, but we have to tell him that we are not going today.  After speaking with him, we notice across the street that people are eating cooked food and are curious is the electric outage is only in our hotel.  Sure enough…..our little corner is the only business affected and we walk across the street for hot coffee and yummy breakfast fare.  Afterward, we return to Hudson with some food and Paulie and I decide to have a little alone time by walking around the neighborhood and out to the tip of the peninsula of Luang Prabang.  It is nice to have some quiet time to walk at our own pace and explore on our own terms for a change.  We spend about two hours walking around before returning to the smiling faces of our kids all snuggled down in the bedroom.  Turns out is must have done them some good to be away from us for a while.  Annie, Sam, Paulie and I head out for lunch by walking along the river front in the direction of the silver district and find a nice restaurant on the corner of the main tourist street.  We enjoy a wonderful late lunch and then have a nice selection of pastries offered at the bakery next door.  We wash it all down with the most expensive lime & mint shakes that we have enjoyed so far….oh well!  Afterward, we continue on toward the Dala Market on the outskirts of town, but we find it to be somewhat deserted and we check out the electronics and jewelry before returning via main street back home.  Sam and I wander around at a slower pace and I make a few purchases before we get back home and straight into the shower to wash all the sweat and dirt off our sticky bodies.   All of a sudden, the heavens start to open up and a wonderful thunderstorm ensues.  It has been so long since we have heard and felt the rain that it is so calming and gives us permission to tuck in and relax for a while.  After a good rest and some school/journaling catch up,  Annie, Sam and I venture next door for some massages while Hudson and Paulie stay back at the hotel.  The massage place seems to double as someone’s home and we call out for a while before settling into the lounge chairs up front.  We finally see a person emerge after about 10 minutes and we get going on foot and back massages.  We return to the hotel and the others go out to dinner while I stay back with Hudson.  Once we are all together again, the enjoy listening to the sound of the rain while we watch a movie on TV and drift off to sleep.


Kuang Si Waterfalls


April 26
Paulie and I are up pretty early to get a coffee and check out the rooms at the new guesthouse option.  We find that our hotel offers us breakfast included in the price and although we only want coffee they bring us the full on breakfast with fruit, crepe with butter and  jam, a fruit smoothie and, yes, a great cup of coffee with fresh milk.  We eat the breakfast along with the coffee and then head down the street to check out the rooms at the Tingkham Guesthouse.  Turns out this place is ideal and is situated one block from the Mekong River.  The rooms are perfectly adequate and at a total cost of $38 for two rooms, it is perfect for the bottom line.  We return to the hotel to see if they have any wiggle room on their rates, which they do but not nearly enough, so we get ourselves packed up and walk about a block and a half down the street.  We are checked in soon enough and then we find the friendliest tuk-tuk driver who we are able to negotiate a pretty good deal with to drive us to the Kuan Sii Waterfalls about an hour outside of town.  We get changed into our bathing suits and order a couple of sandwiches for the road and we head outside to the tuk-tuk.  We discover that he has recruited two French girls who will be joining us on our journey.  We take off and the ride is quite pleasant and Paulie has a chance to use his French while engaging the girls in conversation.  We soon see an amazing array of beautiful butterflies flitting about the country side.  So beautiful.  We arrive at the waterfall and agree to meet back at the bus at 2:00 for the return trip home.  We walk up and along the entrance and pay our fee to go into the park.  From there we have a short walk through a forest with a well-worn path along the side of the river.  We come upon the first of the tiered pools that are created by the cascading waterfall.  The water is turquoise blue and we soon discover why……it’s freezing.  We make our way a little farther up the path, and then decide to check it out.  There is a rope swing that has Sam pretty stoked.  Annie and I make it into the water up to our navels and then we have to adjust for about 30 minutes before venturing further.  Sam plunges into the frigid waters without hesitation while Annie and I are trying to feel our legs again.  There is a curious sensation on and around our feet…..its tiny fish nibbling at our shins and it is kinda creepy.  We have seen any number of “fish spas” or ponds where you sit on the side of an aquarium and let the fish eat off the dead skin on your feet.  It’s pretty weird, but apparently popular.  Not for me though and not for Annie either.  We remain there as long as we can and then have the idea that we will continue our hike to the top of the waterfall.  It is absolutely gorgeous here and the cool earth under the canopy of trees is really wonderful.  The water is a beautiful shade of blue.  There are picnic tables scattered around and a number of Lao families enjoying the scenery.  We take in the beauty of this place for quite a while before returning down the path and stopping at a bear sanctuary at the base of the trail.  There are rescue efforts underway to save the endangered bears of Thailand, Laos, Cambodia and Myanmar.  The Chinese use bear bile for medicinal purposes and the paws are prized for decoration.  This group is raising awareness and providing a place for rescued animals to live out their days.  After checking out the bears, it is now time to return to the taxi and make the hour long drive back to Luang Prabang.  We are underway and arrive back into town around 3:30.  We immediately take showers and rest for a very short time before heading out for dinner.  We find a very nice restaurant that offers regional fare as well as European food….something for every taste!  After dinner, Hudson and I walk around the Night Market, but don’t have enough energy to do any more shopping.  He has been feeling under the weather and we find a night pharmacy that gives us some medicine to help with an ear ache that he has had for a couple of days.  We get back home and all settle into our room to watch a movie on TV before getting to bed on the very late side of things.

Hello Laos!


April 25

Today, Paulie and I arise very early to get a jump on the retrieval of the passports.  After a coffee gets us up and going, we find a tuk tuk to take us (once again) to the Chinese Consultate where we are keeping our fingers crossed our Visas will be ready for us to take our passports along…..especially since we have an afternoon flight to Luang Prabang, Laos.  Sure enough, we wait only a very short time before getting them back in exchange for the amazingly expensive cost of $750!  Cost for a Chinese visa if you are American = $150 per person;  Cost for Chinese visa for everyone else in the world = $20…..urgh.  We stop by a MacDonalds where we purchase hash browns for the kids and get back to the hotel where we are happy to dole out the first “American” food they have had in a long time.  We get packed and checked out by 10:00, but the hotel agrees to let us swim in the pool before our departure time of around 1:00.  This gives me time to book a hotel in Luang Prabang, something I was waiting to do until I knew we had our passports.  Paulie takes the kids around the corner for breakfast and we are all ready to head out by our anticipated departure time.  We give great thanks to the staff here who have been really nice to us throughout our stay and take off down the street in search of a songtaew.  We find a driver on the corner and lo and behold Hudson and Annie have negotiated a great price for all of us to go to the airport….way to go kiddos!!  We pile in and about 20 minutes later find ourselves back into the real hustle and bustle world of flights and schedules.  We pass through security without a problem and have a short wait time in the terminal.    Hudson is pleased/scared that we will be riding on a propeller plane and as he always does, becomes giddy because he really does not like to fly.  We board the Lao Airline plane from the back – interesting – and make our way to our seats.  The flight is only about half full so we have our choice of seating arrangements.  Our flight lasts only about an hour during which time we are offered drinks twice and a box lunch.  This is like taking four giant strides back in time…..remember when service was expected to be friendly and food and drink we of course offered free of charge???? We arrive in Laos and then the hustle to get the Visa at the border begins.  We have read in travel books that it is best to have US$ to pay for the visa, otherwise you get a horrible exchange rate and end up paying almost twice the rate for one.  Unfortunately, we only have enough US money for three of the Visas and no local currency to cover the difference.  They agree to accept Thai baht, but when they show me the amount I get per baht, I almost faint.  “Is there an ATM here?”  Yes, but you have to pass through security first.  Somehow, when I wave my ATM card at the security officers they allow me to pass through without proof of passport or visa in order to get money to procure a visa – Funny!  I successfully get the amount of Lao “Kip” that we need and pay the agent, before being moved to another line where our passports are stamped.  As ususal, we are the last people from our flight to pick up our bags and head out to the taxi stand.  We inquire about the cost of a taxi and are quoted $30 for the ride.  “No way” I say….”there is a sign right there that says taxi to town is $6”.  To which I receive the reply, “That is for only three persons”.  “Well then,” I reason, “five people should be $10, right?”  So yes, in the end, we get a taxi for $10 which I am not convinced was the best price we could find, but whatever.  We check into our hotel and then walk around the most quaint town for about an hour or two then return to the hotel to rest before dinner.  This is a really cute town with old colonial French architecture dating from the mid-18th century.  There are beautiful wood floors and shudders on all of the houses and the handicrafts in the local stores are just amazing.  Luang Prabang is located on a peninsula between the Mekong River and the Nam Khan River.  It is laced with wonderful walking streets and once the gas light lanterns are lit along the street, it really comes to life.  We go off in search of a hotel or guesthouse that is a little bit less expensive than our current accommodations.  On the recommendation of our friends Lee and Sarah, we check out a guesthouse down by the river and it turns out to be a great deal although we do not go the extra step of of seeing the rooms.  We then continue our stroll down main street, window shopping along the way.  I am a bit confused by the prices that are marked in that I had thought that Laos was much less expensive than Thailand.  Once we get a lay of the land, I am certain we will be able to bargain with the best of them.  We walk around looking for a place to eat and end up at a small cafĂ© along the Mekong River.  After ordering a large bottle of water, we begin to get bitten mercilessly by the mosquitos.  We can’t stand it any longer and pay for the water and take our leave of the riverfront for dinner elsewhere.  We return to the main drag and find an Indian restaurant and pull up at the table for five.  We finally manage to get a handle on the menu and get our order in.  The food begins to arrive and then all of a sudden all of the electricity goes off, not just in our restaurant, but on the whole entire street (could have been the whole city as far as we know).  The emergency lights come on in the back of the restaurant which works well to at least see our meal for all of about 2 minutes and then……..Whoosh…..the entire restaurant (could have been the whole city as far as we know) is covered in flying bugs.  They are swarming around us and sticking to us and getting caught in our hair and flying into our mouths and doing,  god only knows, in our food.  We retreat outside to the darkened street along with all of the other inhabitants of the restaurant and we start swatting them and hopping up and down.  Working off this meal before we have even eaten it!  The town remains dark for about 20 minutes and then the lights come back on….we inspect the damage to our meal…..and continue eating….Weird.  After dinner, we browse the night market and find a couple of must haves before returning home….sweaty and tired (with bugs in our hair).  We look forward to a good night’s sleep.